Friday, January 22, 2016

Seminal Questions


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ur9wXH5o1Eo

تاریخ انحراف جنسی در حوزه های علمیه قم و نجف و کربلا - به گواهی تاریخ

History of Sexual Diversion in the Seminaries of Qom and Najaf and Karbala - Certified to History


http://www.theguardian.com/world/2006/jan/17/worlddispatch.egypt
"A curious religious debate is raging in Egypt. The question is: should you keep your clothes on when having sex? It began when Dr Rashad Khalil, an expert on Islamic law from al-Azhar university in Cairo warned that being completely naked during intercourse invalidates a marriage. His ruling was promptly dismissed by other scholars, including one who argued that "anything that can bring spouses closer to each other" should be permitted.....Much of the discussion is sadly reminiscent of the old Christian debate about the number of angels that can dance on a pinhead, but sex is only one part of the problem. The current fashion for online fatwas has created an amazingly legalistic approach to Islam as scholars - some of whom have only a tenuous grip on reality - seek to regulate all aspects of life according to their own interpretation of the scriptures. It is much harder to find any discussion on Muslim websites of matters that some would say form the basic substance of religion, such as the nature of love and spiritual experiences."

http://foreignpolicy.com/2012/04/23/the-ayatollah-under-the-bedsheets/
"In the early years of the Iranian Revolution, an obscure cleric named Ayatollah Gilani became a sensation on state television by contemplating bizarre hypotheticals at the intersection of Islamic law and sexuality. One of his most outlandish scenarios -- still mocked by Iranians three decades later -- went like this:
Imagine you are a young man sleeping in your bedroom. In the bedroom directly below, your aunt lies asleep. Now imagine that an earthquake happens that collapses your floor, causing you to fall directly on top of her. For the sake of argument, let's assume that you're both nude, and you're erect, and you land with such perfect precision on top of her that you unintentionally achieve intercourse. Is the child of such an encounter halalzadeh(legitimate) or haramzadeh (a bastard)?
Such tales of random ribaldry may sound anomalous in the seemingly austere, asexual Islamic Republic of Iran. But the "Gili Show," as it came to be known, had quite the following among both the traditional classes, who were titillated by his taboo topics, and the Tehrani elite, who tuned in for comic relief. Gilani helped spawn what is now a virtual cottage industry of clerics and fundamentalists turned amateur sexologists offering incoherent advice on everything from quickies ("The man's goal should be to lighten his load as soon as possible without arousing his woman") to masturbation ("a grave, grave sin which causes scientific and medical harm")."

http://foreignpolicy.com/2012/04/23/sex-and-the-single-mullah/
"Iranian Supreme Leader Ayatollah Ruhollah Khomeini
In his 1961 book, A Clarification of Questions, the supreme leader aimed to set out his position on 3,000 questions of everyday life, though “everyday” might be pushing it for some of them. Most famously, the ayatollah ruled that “If a person has intercourse with a cow, a sheep, or a camel, their urine and dung become impure and drinking their milk will be unlawful.”
The ayatollah also ruled that “Industrial alcohol used for painting doors, tables, chairs, etc., is clean if one does not know it was made of something inebriating” and, as apparently a fan of rudimentary in vitro fertilization, that “It is not unlawful to introduce a man’s semen into the uterus of his wife with devices such as suction cups.”....

Dr. Izzat Atiya, lecturer at Cairo’s al-Azhar University
In 2007, Atiya was responding to a question of whether it’s permissible for a woman to work alone with a man in an office setting, or reveal her hair in front of him. His not-so-elegant solution was that such an arrangement would be acceptable if the woman fed the man “directly from her breast” at least five times, thus making them essentially family members......

Imam Abdelbari Zemzami
This Moroccan cleric has become well known in recent years for weighing in on matters of the flesh. But he recently raised some eyebrows among both secularists and religious conservatives with a fatwa on female masturbation, which he said was permissible for women who are widowed, divorced, or had lost hope that they would ever have sexual relations with a man.
“A woman can get much benefit from these vegetables and other elongated objects,” the imam said, listing pestles, bottles, and root vegetables among other suggested implements."


http://en.iranwire.com/features/7325/
On March 2, 2006, I was browsing the news when I came across an item about the publication of a sex-education calendar in Qom. The provincial Ministry of Guidance had published the calendar, which on every page carried Islamic sex advice. For example, it said “marry a virgin with big buttocks so you will have many children,” or “do not copulate in the afternoons so that your child will not be born cross-eyed,” or “if you eat zucchini with lentils you can engage in intercourse more,” or “feed frankincense to a pregnant woman because if the child is a girl she will have a fair face, plump legs and will grow to have a happy marriage.”
I briefly mentioned the calendar in the blog I was writing at the time: “This rubbish was printed in the official calendar of Qom’s Ministry of Culture and Islamic Guidance with the financial backing of the government. But we, a private newspaper, published a story about the gang rape of a girl, and for the past three months we have had to go back and forth to the court.”
This ended up creating all sorts of trouble. The real problem was the word I’d used, “rubbish.” The same day someone from the office of the Director General of Yazd’s Ministry of Islamic Guidance called me and referred to the words of Jafar Sadegh, the sixth Shia imam and an important theologian of the faith, as “rubbish.” I was not really aware that Imam Sadegh had said such things but they had the books to prove it.
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A month later, in April of 2006, the newspaper was closed, with a thousand adverse financial consequence and regrets.


http://www.memritv.org/clip/en/1563.htm
http://www.memritv.org/clip_transcript/en/1563.htm
Sep 3, 2007:
Following are excerpts from an address delivered by Hasan Rahimpur Azghadi of the Iranian Supreme Council for Cultural Revolution, which aired on Jaam-e Jam 1 TV on September 3, 2007.
Hasan Rahimpur Azghadi: [The Westerners] have transgressed all moral boundaries, and that is why their family unit has collapsed. When modesty and chastity are abandoned, soon enough the family falls apart. The husband and wife are no longer satisfied with one another, and they begin having relations with other men and women. After a while, they start thinking that since they have already experienced this, it is time to try homosexuality. Then, they think this is old-fashioned, and they turn to animals. These things happen in the West. After a while, when they get bored with this, they turn to small children. Today, one of the most prosperous and lucrative trades in the world is the trafficking in sex slaves – mostly women and small children. They trade small children like slaves and use them for sex. They are worse than the most monstrous beasts in history. They have even developed theories about this. Throughout history, people did these vile things, but they never discussed it in public. They always did it in secret. These people raise their head up high, and admit that they do these things. They have now begun turning to objects. There are big factories that produce artificial genitals, and they sell them in stores. A sex shop is a store that sells sex toys.


https://www.al-islam.org/marriage-and-morals-islam-sayyid-muhammad-rizvi/chapter-three-islamic-sexual-morality-2-its
In Islamic terminology, masturbation (istimna) means self-stimulation of the sexual organ till one achieves emission of semen or orgasm. Masturbation in form of self-stimulation is forbidden in Shi'ah fiqh.
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Once when Imam Ja'far as-Sadiq was asked about masturbation, he recited this very verse and mentioned masturbation as one of its examples.7 In another, the Imam was asked about masturbation; he said, "It is an indecent act..."8
Masturbation is a sin for which a person can also be punished by the Islamic court. Of course, the nature of the punishment is upon the judge's discretion. Once a person was caught masturbating and was brought to Imam 'Ali. The Imam punished him by beating on his hands until it turned red; then he made arrangement for his marriage on government's expenses.9
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Hossein Dehnavi

http://www.csmonitor.com/World/Middle-East/2012/0629/The-rules-of-love-as-told-by-an-Iranian-cleric
June 29, 2012: "Cleric Hossein Dehnavi’s comparisons of lovemaking in marriage to jihad have ensured that religious bookshops sell out of their stock of the new DVD every afternoon.".... "“We have quotes from the 12 [Shiite] Imams saying that having sex with your wife is just like jihad, fighting for the sake of Allah,” says Dehnavi. “Unfortunately, some people believe sexual relationships are ugly. No, it is not an ugly behavior in Islam, it is a divine behavior and it is even a religious obligation to properly make love.”…"

https://en.iranwire.com/features/6279/
Feb 3, 2015:  “On those nights when you feel like being intimate with your husband and you want to arouse him, why not wear a skirt with slits up the side, so that, when you walk, he will see the back of your knees? He will definitely be aroused. Or, wear a short skirt so that he can see your legs; that will get him excited. Then, when you sit in front of him, cross your legs.”
These are the words of controversial cleric Hossein Dehnavi, an  “expert” in family affairs in one of his many lectures.
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But he is controversial — and not just because of his comments regarding sex. In one video published on YouTube, he announced, “non-Muslims have more strokes because strokes normally happen at dawn, when Muslims do their morning prayers.” In another, he asserted that “women incorrectly wearing the hejab leads to homosexuality among men,“ “bad hejab makes women ugly,” and that “people from different nationalities must never marry each other.” He has also claimed that women are generally aroused when they read the Koran chapter on Joseph. Critics point out that his advice is primarily based on anecdotal evidence and popular pre-conceptions.
When he is criticized, he is often accused of being a misogynist. “Contrary to some advice,” he declared in one lecture, “it is not necessary that in every sexual act the woman should reach orgasm. No. This is false. Sometimes the woman likes to engage in the act even though she is not aroused and does not reach orgasm. But she still enjoys it because she is fulfilling her partner’s needs.”
Dehnavi has repeatedly advised women to never reject a husband’s sexual advances. “The Prophet Muhammad has said that women must respond to men even if they are riding a camel,” he said in one recorded lecture. “Of course, some of you might want to point out that there are no camels in the city. My answer is: forget about the camel — you have cars!”

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https://hubeali.com/books/Urdu-Books/TehzeebulIslam.pdf
Tehzeeb ul Islam by Allama Majlisi, page 130-1, etiquettes of intercourse





http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2015/01/01/50-shades-of-iran-the-mullahs-kinky-fantasies-about-sex-in-the-west.html
http://en.iranwire.com/features/5916/
April 12, 2015: Mehdi Bayati has been putting forward the same argument as my middle school teachers. “The growth of feminism in the West and the fact the 60 percent of Western women prefer to sleep with dogs rather than men is the result of the absence of hejab and the diminished threshold of women’s sexual arousal,” he told the Resa News Agency, run by the Qom seminary.
He did not specify the source of this figure, but referred to the provocative nature of women’s hair. “It is said that the Prophet Mohammad stated that women’s hair sexually arouses men,” he said, conceded that “perhaps modern science has not proven this” but “it was said by somebody who only speaks the truth.”
Invoking one of the less frequently discussed rationales for imposed dress codes, Bayati also said that “the absence of hejab lowers the libido of men and this would not benefit women.”
Iranian clerics have long promoted Islamic hejab by arguing about sexual corruption or deviance in the West, but one of the strangest comments came earlier this year from the cleric Mohammad-Mehdi Mandegary, a member of ultra-conservative Endurance Front and the head of an organization called Foundation for Promoting the Way of the Martyrs.
He declared that relations between Western women are sexually promiscuous in a manner not even found in the natural world. “In the West when one woman has relations with several men, they take pride in it,” he said. “But animals are different and a female of the species does not have relations with several males at the same time.”
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Even leggings have been pulled into the fray. Recently tight leg apparel has become the focus of controversy among Islamic Republic officials, and were even brought to the floor of parliament by the Tehran MP Ali Motahari. In an open session he displayed pictures of women in leggings and argued in remarks broadcast on television that “sexual deviations, homosexuality and bestiality are results of unbridled behavior and the trampling of morality, which hejab would prevent.”
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Eshkevari noted that such views have a long history, and cited Abolhassan Banisadr, the first president of the Islamic Republic, who returned from Paris and justified imposed hejab by saying that ‘women’s hair radiates a spark that arouses men.’
Banisadr, according to Eshkevari, also interpreted a Koranic verse to mean that some women aroused when beaten. Ayatollah Makarem Shirazi interpreted the same verse in the same way about seven years ago, Eshkevari says, concluding that physical harm arouses some women. “If an Islamic thinker and a Western-educated man such as Banisadr resorts to everything to justify himself, what do you expect from Ayatollah Shirazi?” Eshkevari said.
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Last month Hassan Abbasi, the head of the Center for Doctrinal Strategic Studies in the Islamic Revolutionary Guards Corps and a theoretician in the office of Supreme Leader, claimed that the “Western human rights approves of incest. Incest is very rare in animals but the Western man has debased himself so much that he supports incest as a human right.”
“In America 100 percent of men have free sexual relations after marriage,” he said in another speech, which was aired on TV. “While in Iran perhaps two men out of ten thousand might marry a second wife. Listen to them shout about equality between men and women.”
Abbasi then referred to Anousheh Ansari, an Iranian-American astronaut and the first Iranian woman in space. “The basis of the Shi’a thought is chastity and the West uses women to destroy Shi’ism. Why did they send this woman Anousheh Ansari into space with a few men? They want to kill chastity. This is the main plank of feminism and feminism is the foundation of American lifestyle.”


http://m.themalaymailonline.com/malaysia/article/women-must-give-husbands-sex-even-on-camels-islamic-scholar-says#sthash.FHCb2Dds.dpuf
April 27, 2016: KUALA LUMPUR, April 27 — While insisting that the concept of marital rape does not exist in Islam, religious scholars say it is sinful for a Muslim man to force his wife to have sex when she is ill or menstruating.  Perak Mufti Tan Sri Harussani Zakaria said that men can always have sexual intercourse with their spouses even if the latter do not agree, saying that a Muslim woman has “no right” to reject her husband’s demand.  “Even the Prophet says even when they’re riding on the back of the camel, when the husband asks her, she must give.  “So there’s no such thing as rape in marriage. This is made by European people, why should we follow?” he told Malay Mail Online when contacted yesterday as he cited the hadith or reported teachings of Prophet Muhammad. - See more at:

http://m.themalaymailonline.com/malaysia/article/muslim-husbands-cant-pull-out-during-sex-without-wifes-consent-says-perlis#sthash.u5eypib6.dpuf
April 28, 2016: KUALA LUMPUR, Datuk Dr Mohd Asri Zainul Abidin claimed today that a Muslim husband is obliged to fulfil his wife’s sexual desires, to the point that he should not even perform coitus interruptus without consent from the wife.
KUALA LUMPUR, April 28 — Datuk Dr Mohd Asri Zainul Abidin claimed today that a Muslim husband is obliged to fulfil his wife’s sexual desires, to the point that he should not even perform coitus interruptus without consent from the wife. - See more at: http://m.themalaymailonline.com/malaysia/article/muslim-husbands-cant-pull-out-during-sex-without-wifes-consent-says-perlis#sthash.u5eypib6.dpuf



https://www.al-islam.org/islamic-medical-wisdom-tibb-al-aimma/intercourse
Muhammad b. Ja’far al-Bursi narrated from Muhammad b. Yahya al-Armani from Muhammad b. Sinan al-Zahiri from Yunus b. Zabyan from Isma’il b. Abu Zaynab that Abu ‘Abd Allah, peace be upon him, said to one of his followers: “Do not have intercourse with your wife while you have your hair dyed, for if you are blessed with a child, it will be effeminate (mukhannath).”
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From al-Baqir, peace be upon him, who said: ‘Al-Husayn b. ‘Ali, peace be upon him, said to his companions: “Avoid intercourse on the night in which you intend to travel. If you do so and are blessed with a child, he will be squint-eyed.”’

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On Intercourse with One Free-Born Woman before Another

Al-Mundhir b. Muhammad narrated from ‘Allan b. Muhammad from Dharih from Abu ‘Abd Allah, peace be upon him, who said that al-Baqir, peace be upon him, said: “Do not have intercourse with one free-born woman in front of another. As for [intercourse with] one bondmaid in front of another, there is no objection [to that].”



https://www.al-islam.org/islamic-marriage-syed-athar-husain-sh-rizvi/sexual-techniques

Anal Intercourse

The opinions of our mujtahids vary on the permissibility of anal intercourse. The majority of the Shi’ah mujtahids have derived two conclusions: (1) that anal intercourse is not haraam but strongly disliked (karahatan shadidah) provided the wife agrees to it. (2) And if she does not agree to it, then all mujtahids say that it is precautionarily wajib to refrain from it.
However, during the last decade of his life, Ayatullah al-Khu’i departed from the majority view and gave the ruling that it was precautionarily wajib to abstain from anal intercourse no matter whether the wife agrees to it or not.8
Maulana Sayyid Muhammad Rizvi says, “I would strongly advise against anal intercourse,” and quotes the saying of Imam Ja’far as-Sadiq (A.S.) and Imam ‘Ali ar-Reza (A.S.) about anal intercourse: “Woman is a means of your pleasure, therefore do not harm her.” 9
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3. Making love standing
It is narrated from the Prophet (S): “The husband and wife must not engage in intercourse like two donkeys clinging together, because if it is like this then the Angels of mercy will go far from them and the mercy of Allāh will be taken away from them.”32
4. Making love bare (without a covering)
It is narrated that Muĥammad bin al-Ais asked Imām as-Ŝādiq (as): “Is it permissible to go near my wife naked (i.e. make love naked)?” Imām replied: “No, don’t do such a thing…”33
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10. Refusing to have sexual intercourse (for various reasons)
It is narrated from Imām al-Bāqir (as): The Prophet (S) said to women: “Do not prolong your Ŝalāt such that it becomes an excuse for not going to bed (for sexual intercourse) with your husbands.”44


http://www.shiachat.com/forum/topic/67476-necrophilia/
Answer from Ayatullah Khamanei:
Question: I have a question concerning Nicrophilia. Is it considered adultery? And what should one do if such an indecent act is committed? Also, what is the punishment under Islamic law?
Answer: If it is meant sexual affairs with a corpse, it is haraam and is considered zinaa if they were not spouse. The person is subject to a severe punishment should repent as soon as possible and ask Allah for forgiveness.
Answer from Ayatullah Seestani:
Question: I have a question about Necrophilia. I wanted to know if it is the same as adultery? If so, should Islamic law be the action against such an indecent act? If not, what is the punishment?
Answer: It is not adultery but the muslim should not be like that.


http://www.seekerspath.co.uk/question-bank/marriage-divorce/q-id0255-is-it-permissible-to-perform-anal-sex-in-islam-2/
Having intercourse via the back passage of a woman is known as anal sex and this is definitely Harām [Harām-e-Qat’ī], the one who deems it permissible is a Kāfir and the perpetrator [of anal sex] is a transgressor and a sinner;


http://www.seekerspath.co.uk/question-bank/marriage-divorce/q-id0254-is-it-permissible-for-a-man-to-get-masturbated-by-his-wife/
Masturbation via one’s wife’s hand is permissible, however it is disliked [Makrūh Tanzīhī].


http://www.shiapen.com/comprehensive/mutah/sunni-morality.html
“Ibn ‘Aqeel, and many of our scholars, and our Shaykh [Ibn Taymiyya] have ruled that masturbation is makruh (disliked), and never explicitly said he that it was haram”.
Bada’i al-Fuwa’id of Ibn Qayyim, page 129
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Ibn Qayyim writes:
“If a woman does not have a husband, and her lust becomes strong, then some of our scholars say: It is permissible for the woman to take an akranbij, which is a piece of leather worked until it becomes shaped like a penis, and insert it in herself. She may also use a cucumber”.
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Ibn Qayyim continues this discussion, which exemplifies the morals espoused by Sunni Islam:
“If a man makes a hole in a watermelon, or a piece of dough, or a leather skin, or a statue, and has sex with it, then this is the same as what we have said about other types of masturbation [i.e., that it is halaal in the same circumstances given before, such as being on a journey]. In fact, it is easier than masturbating with one’s hand”.


http://www.wabil.com/browse_categories.php?limit=50&cid=128&page=1
Question ID  3503  -  Marriage
If a woman loses her virginity because of having sex without marriage does the girl need the permission of the father to marry that same man or other men
Answer:-  Yes, she does need permission from her father or paternal grand father.
Mohammad Al-Musawi
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Question ID  3159  -  Marriage
Can me and my wife talk about dirty things like having sex with other men or women while having sex just for arrousal purpose and with no intention of doing such an act ever ? Please reply this is the third time I am asking and its not for making fun.
Answer:-  No, it is not allowed to talk about sinful things even if you and she do
not intend to commit it.
Wassalam
Mohammad Al-Misawi


http://www.wabil.com/browse_categories.php?make=&cid=152&limit=20&page=1
Question ID  3676  -  Youth issues
Salam Sayid. I am a married man and was wondering if it is considered masturbation if looking at my wifes picture while travelling alone causes sperms to come out. Thank you.
Answer:-  All types of masturbation are forbidden.
Looking at your wife's nude pictures is allowed for you but it should not
cause ejaculation.
When your wife is with you she can use her hand or her body to make you
ejaculate as that's allowedstory you as her husband, however you are not
allowed to ejaculate by yourself.
Wassalam
Mohammad Al-Musawi

http://www.wabil.com/browse_categories.php?limit=40&cid=152&page=1
Question ID  2150  -  Youth issues
Assalam alaikum My wife is living in differnt country. Can i masturbate watching her on webcam.....wassLam
Answer:-  You are not allowed to masturbate using your hands or any part of your
body. You are allowed to watch your wife through webcam and talk to her in
any way to make you ejaculate but with out you touching your private parts.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi
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Question ID  1838  -  Youth issues
assalamualikum mawlana. Can a muslim be in love with a non-muslim? Will his/her ibadah be accepted?
Answer:-  Muslim is not allowed to love a person with whom marriage is not allowed,
and Muslim is not allowed to marry non Muslim.
Wassalam.
Mohammad al-Musawi

https://gift2shias.com/2010/07/09/scandalous-fatwa-from-al-khoei/
http://arabic.al-khoei.org/falea.htm
Question 784: Can a Man touch the private parts of another man from behind the clothes and a woman touch those of another woman, jokingly and just for fun under the condition that it does not arouse Lust?
Answer: It’s not Haram if it does not (arouse Lust).
Source: Sirat al najah fi Ajwibat al istifta’at Part 3.

 

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